People Only Change When They Want To
People only change when they want to, when they love you more than they love their ego. Learn how to let them lose you, even if it's just emotionally or energetically. Don't force anyone to show you that they love you enough to change.
Cleopatra ☥𓆃
Muse • Goddess • Divine Feminine • Self love advocate • Certified in trauma recovery using DBT • @stouttacosmos @cosmicle0 Ig: amandaprq
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People only change when they want to, when they love you more than they love their ego that’s giving them a false sense of safety. Don’t force anyone to show you that they love you enough to change. Let them lose you. One day you’ll meet someone that will never risk losing you
— Cleopatra ☥𓆃 (@amandaperera) June 11, 2023 -
This isn’t exclusive to romantic relationships. Let friends or family members lose you too. Even if they’re still present in your life, they can lose emotional and energetic access to you, access to your time, access to the love you used to share with them
— Cleopatra ☥𓆃 (@amandaperera) June 11, 2023 -
People should never change who they are on a soul level. That’s what makes each of us unique, and that’s what makes the right people love us. But you can love someone as they are and at the same time not love or want to accept the things they do or patterns that can affect others
— Cleopatra ☥𓆃 (@amandaperera) June 11, 2023 -
When someone really loves you and cares about you, whether it’s a family member, a friend or your partner, the moment you tell them that something hurts you, they will immediately change that so it never happens again. Sometimes people can love you and not want to change too
— Cleopatra ☥𓆃 (@amandaperera) June 11, 2023 -
That happens when the person is too attached to whatever is hurting you. That’s when you hear lots of adults say “that’s just who I am”. They refused to do the inner work. Some lovers show that by doing over again the things that they know that hurt you. Also friends and family
— Cleopatra ☥𓆃 (@amandaperera) June 11, 2023 -
Change doesn’t happen when someone else expresses their hurt. Change can only happen when the person *chooses* to let go of their attachment to those patterns that can negatively affect others. So it’s essential to respect their decision and redirect that energy into yourself
— Cleopatra ☥𓆃 (@amandaperera) June 11, 2023