Signs You Were Raised By A Father With Generational Trauma
This blog examines the signs that you were raised by a father with generational trauma, such as fractured relationships, inappropriate conversations, and emotional shaming. Learn how to recognize these signs.
Dr. Nicole LePera
#1 New York Times Bestselling Author “How To Do The Work”(https://t.co/HF3UY9ia4Q) Founder of @selfhealerscirc 👇🏼Join Waitlist 👇🏼
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1. There were lots of fractured relationships, grudges, or overall dysfunction in his family
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2. He shared intimate details of situations to you as a child that weren’t appropriate. (“your mother won’t have sex with me” “we would be divorced if it weren’t for you.”)
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3. He struggled to show any physical affection or have emotional vulnerable conversations.
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4. He shamed you for showing emotions (“man up” “don’t be a baby” “you’re weak!”)
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5. His presence was inconsistent, sporadic, or chaotic.
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6. He was critical of your appearance or your mother’s appearance.
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7. The only way he showed affection was through mocking or teasing (which sometimes hurt)
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8. You loved him but never felt fully safe around him— due to his emotional outbursts or unexpected shifts in mood.
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