The Superpower of Likability
This blog post explores the power of likability and how it can be used to build relationships and create meaningful connections. It outlines tips for being more likable and honest in social interactions.
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Zach Homol
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Likability is a SUPERPOWER.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Youāve heardā¦ itās not what you know but who you know?
Relationships are at the foundation of our human experiences.
Hereās how to be more likable:
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Donāt criticize.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Thereās a time & place for everything & more often then not you can hold your criticism -
Be Honest.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Honest people have clear intentions. Honesty is at the core of human connection -
Be interested in others.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Everyone loves to talk about themself. Learn to ask better questions. -
Acknowledge others superpowersā¦ & tell them!
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
We all could use the āthat a boy!ā -
Honor your friends & family.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Respect will more often than not mirrored. When itās notā¦ youāll know. & thatās on them -
Stop speaking DOWN to others. Get off your high horse.
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Pay attention to body language & voice tone.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
People will tell you with their voice & body what they like / donāt like. -
HUG.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
We are missing this in our culture. Hug your people. Break that āsealā as awakened as it might be at first. This new level of intimacy will radically change your connections. -
Go out of your way to let others know you SEE them.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
An act of kindness with no expectation of anything in return. -
Remember their name & say it in conversation. This is hard for many (including myself) but dang does it make others feel seen.
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Note to selfā¦ get better. -
Invite others into your community
— Zach Homol (@zachhomol_) March 18, 2023
Doing something fun? Have something going on?
Invite the guy from church/the gym to join. Or invite the guy from work to gym/church!