Getting Out of a Rut
Learn how to get out of a rut. Avoid negative self-talk and be kind to yourself. Go for a 15 minute walk every morning and pursue the larger luck surface area. Take small steps to get back on track and reach your goals.
Sahil Bloom
Exploring my curiosity and sharing what I learn along the way. Gave up a grand slam on ESPN in 2012 and still waiting for it to land.
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We've all been there: You're firing on all cylinders—inspired and motivated. Then, suddenly, you aren't. Things become very, very difficult.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
You're in a rut.
Here's my strategy to get out of it: pic.twitter.com/mt98nHQic1 -
Last week, I fell into a rut.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
I didn't want to wake up at my normal hour, didn't want to travel, and didn't want to do the daily writing that I normally love.
Fortunately, I've developed an approach for these situations:
1. Stop Digging
2. Change Direction
3. Create Movement -
Step 1: Stop Digging
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
"The most important thing to do if you find yourself in a hole is to stop digging." ― Warren Buffett
Think of being in a rut as being at the bottom of a hole. A lot of us are digging ourselves deeper without realizing it.
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Negativity: It's easy to be hard on yourself when you're in a rut.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
You start using negative self-talk to criticize your lack of discipline.
The negativity is a self-fulfilling prophecy—you start to believe negative things about yourself and find evidence to confirm it. -
Exhaustion: You're a car stuck in the mud.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
Ambitious people assume that they can get the car out of the mud by revving the engine and propelling forward, but the tire spins faster and faster and the car digs itself deeper and deeper.
We're avoiding the rest we desperately need. -
The first step to get out of a rut is to stop digging.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
• Upgrade Your Mindset: Eliminate the negativity and cut yourself a break.
• Take Rest: Don't try to get out of it in an instant. Give yourself time and space to rest. Remember that "rest" comes in many different forms. -
Step 2: Change Direction
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There are all variety of factors that are outside of your control that may have contributed to you falling into a rut, but this step solely focuses on those within your control.
Look internally and externally at the controllables: -
Internally: How am I complicit in creating the conditions that I don't want?
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This question forces you to pause and look inward—to ask whether there are any actions, mindsets, or patterns through which you were contributing to the rut.
How can you change those conditions? -
Externally: How is your environment negatively shaping this reality?
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
Most of the time, your environment contributes to your rut.
You may just need a change of scenery, or you may need to remove some people or things that are draining your energy and contributing to the cycle. -
Step 3: Create Movement
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
If you wait to act until you feel motivated, you may never start. When in doubt, just start moving.
Movement —> Momentum —> Motivation
To start the cycle, all you have to do is manufacture movement. Then you can sit back and let it take you for a ride. -
My favorite method for manufacturing movement: Minimum Viable Progress.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
Avoid the tendency to think that the movement has to be perfect.
As @JamesClear says, "Just because it's not optimal, doesn't mean it's not beneficial."
Just do a tiny bit. Anything above zero compounds. -
Life is a long game. Simply staying in the game is the most important thing.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
Ruts happen. When they do, slow down and work through them:
1. Stop Digging
2. Change Direction
3. Create Movement
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Important Note: This is not intended to replace professional mental health support.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
While my strategy will certainly help, if you believe the rut is driven by a clinical issue, seek out a mental health professional.
If you don't have access to one, open up to a friend.
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Examples of Minimum Viable Progress:
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) June 1, 2023
If you're trying to get back into workouts, don't worry about going to the gym for hours, just go for a 15 minute walk.
If you're trying to get back into your work flow, don't worry about executing long blocks, just focus for 15 minutes.